Ode to Wikinut Detractors.......whoever they are, wherever they be

cnwriterStarred Page By cnwriter, 26th May 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/xm94d-di/
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Someone out there is really having a go at this great site and I do not mean Buzz! Whoever it is they should know that jealousy prompts this kind of behavior and it is such a shame so I ask them to turn to the Light and to loving acceptance.

A Critic's critic

It seems you have a lot of to say. A lot of nothings to mouth off about. I wonder why.
You criticize the work of others without considering that they write from their hearts which you perhaps have clothed in black ...I mean your heart! They are doing the very best they can!

You hate the one whose poetry is a dance in motion that goes on and one reaching heights that you could never touch or perhaps you could if you would change your stinking attitude. You hate the beauty of a woman's body which can be one of the most fantastic things to gaze upon but then I don't know who looks back when you look in the mirror. Oh oh oh jealousy can really poison your mind!

Influences upon you being as you are now

Depending where you were brought up, raised, dragged along the ground all have influenced whom you are today. If you dwell in darkness, it is because you were never shown the Light. To dwell in the Light, you love beauty and caring and sharing from a loving space inside and from the way you write about others, that space must be awfully small and dark. Perhaps once you did know the Light and you turned away because it was so bright and reflected parts of you that you did not like so you blamed others and turned into the darkness.
What does the darkness bring forth: sorrow and pain, negativity and pain, hate and pain, dis-ease and pain. An awful lot of pain for sure which probably is why you want to inflict it on others. Believe you me, that does not lessen your pain...it can make it worse for the True Self within (and you have one too believe it or not) will take everything you create and send out on others then take it back into itself and voila, you find yourself in the midst of all of your creation. Pain, pain and more pain!!!!
And when you separate yourself from others, guess who is separated!!!

Look up into the Light

So my dear whoever you are I really wish you well on this your journey through the hell of your own making. Look up into the Light and see the beauty in all things, be commoners or kings we all do share a common bond that of the Soul that makes us one.

this is not meant to inflict on anyone just to help point the way into a more loving attitude to other writers....

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Acceptance, Buzz, Cnwriter, Cnwriter2, Emotions, Hatred, Jealousy, Mind, One, Soul, True Self, Writing

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I have been writing on food, wine, travel, cosmic creation and erotica for over 30 years I do horoscopes and numerology and readings.

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author avatar Steve Kinsman
26th May 2012 (#)

You echo my sentiments exactly, although you say it so much better than I could. Thank you cnwriter.

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author avatar cnwriter
26th May 2012 (#)

oh Steve...thank you so much for moderating this and the star...oh oh oh...love it, love you being back too...am content..

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author avatar cnwriter
28th May 2012 (#)

thanks Steve...dont agree because you are an amazing writer...

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author avatar shallimarRose
26th May 2012 (#)

Well I dont think knocking down ones diction and learning ability was necessary...to me two wrongs never make a right.. I don't know who this was aimed at and don't care... I never listen to propaganda anyhow so don't worry what is said goes in one eye and out the other so to speak....

I'm not leaving wiki any time soon I like all you nuts too much...
xo shallimarRose

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author avatar Peter B. Giblett
26th May 2012 (#)

This was a great article! BTW I would also include Buzz at this moment.

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author avatar cnwriter
26th May 2012 (#)

thank you Peter...I am happy with wiki even if others complain....

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author avatar cnwriter
27th May 2012 (#)

what does BTW mean??

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author avatar shallimarRose
26th May 2012 (#)

Buzz???? whyyyyyy????

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author avatar Peter B. Giblett
26th May 2012 (#)

As much as I love the general feelings of Buzz it is when goes into rant mode as he has done on one of my pages recently. Now I do love and value all comments, but I am not so sure I like them when they are off topic.

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author avatar cnwriter
26th May 2012 (#)

I agree Peter...I love Buzz too oh my this page is causing much controversy!!!!

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author avatar Buzz
27th May 2012 (#)

My apologies, Peter. You can always delete them. I never liked myself being outspoken and brutally frank when being confronted with issues but that's the way I am. Thanks, Peter, for the criticism.

Thanks for speaking out, dear Carolan. Great star post!

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author avatar cnwriter
26th May 2012 (#)

if you dont know Shalimar why should I tell you and I will write as I wish just as you do. Am not making anyone wrong just writing the way I feel and we are not nuts..we just have the guts to say things as they are.....

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
26th May 2012 (#)

One should be free to express ones feelings without jealousy or pain and learn to criticise work not the person.
One of the biggest problems I faced out here on Wikinut is the lack sport in commenting, anger jealousy etc. I have personally been called a pedophile, donkey konk and what not or yea, even criticized for my looks etc.by jealous fans who have nothing better in life but to pick on people to further their vested interests.
I know what you are echoing and feel for you, I really do.
Living in the NOW means accepting who you are, what you do and taking feedback constructively and above all maintaining composure when these are thrown at you. Its when things reach fever point, I lash out and give it straight to the source of emanation wherein I kill the root cause of the evil at the source and just turn and walk away with nothing to do with any of them, but I do come back to teach a thing or two if they are willing to accept. Not all are receptive.
The beauty of the Light is that I always love looking at the the Sun for illumination and cosmic vibes as I believe its the single most source of energy that brings all things to life.
Its hot, peaceful and calm with bountiful riches that spreads to all four corners of the world and brings into the Heart of Sea the life that sea creatures also experience the magic of.
I personally don't care about the hurtful criticism any more, its part of underdeveloped minds who talk small things like people rather than discuss events and solutions that would aid in making life better as a whole.
With regard to Buzz, Jimmy has his moments when he loses it, he is just temperamental, he has done that to me too and finally apologised too. Don't take him seriously, he is harmless.

Here is a personal account that made me a writer:
I had a journalist fan who used to read every line and edit my work on the comments sections apart from leaving a remark. I loved it and just changed my work to incorporate it and it increased my writing ability as he give me a new outlook in life as well as writing.
Three ways to look at it: 1) Mourn about the type of feedback received 2) Ignore it
3) Take the feedback and make a change and improve oneself.
I take the latter.
Take care, know you are not the biggest fan of me, but Just thought I would share it....

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author avatar cnwriter
26th May 2012 (#)

thank you Lady A...you do have the knack of hitting the nail on the head just as I do ...

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author avatar Joseph l.Cox
26th May 2012 (#)

I agree with the article, if the person doesn't like it he simply turns the page. I am not a good writer but i try and enjoy what i m doing, the thing about wikinut is people comment so you know you are being read.

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author avatar cnwriter
26th May 2012 (#)

You are so right Joseph..thank you

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author avatar Tranquilpen
26th May 2012 (#)

Thank you for your pure and untainted compassion towards the hurt ones. We would all have to go a very long way to find a more caring spirit such as yours.I Love You for that.X

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author avatar cnwriter
26th May 2012 (#)

thank you so much Andre was feeling a bit strange at opening this can of worms!!! your comment makes me feel wonderful

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author avatar David Reinstein,LCSW
27th May 2012 (#)

Thoughtful complaints do not and need not equal categorical rejection... None of us, nor the things we create - are or ever shall be perfect ...It's the basic Wiki of life ...:-}

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author avatar cnwriter
27th May 2012 (#)

there is no such thing as perfection on this physical level David...everything is perfectly imperfect and so it goes.....

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
27th May 2012 (#)

A wonderful article to make everyone think of life itself and how to face it. Positive and negative thoughts spring from the same source. So it is up to us. Words once spoken cannot be taken back, so we have to think ahead when we express strong views. That does not mean we just keep quite. I fight negative thoughts tooth and nail, analyze them for what they are and if it is not going to benefit anyone, just forget it! I had great time with another site for two years with many times articles than here and although I do not contribute there now, I respond to comments from dear supporters. We move on without rancour to keep our coscience at ease. Thanks dear cnw, for putting matters under the right perspective - siva

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author avatar cnwriter
27th May 2012 (#)

thank you Siva for understanding where I am coming from in this matter..namaste

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author avatar shallimarRose
27th May 2012 (#)

Carolan I didnt ask you to tell me..I was just stating that i didnt know to whom or what you were referring like some seem to and that it wouldnt matter to me because i dont listen to anything negative about wikinut...So far I like what I see and the people here... wow . xo

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author avatar cnwriter
27th May 2012 (#)

just referring to negativity towards Wikinut which I do not approve of...xo

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author avatar shallimarRose
27th May 2012 (#)

OMG what is wrong with wiki? why is my comment here six times?? geeeezzzzz! I came back to say after reading all these comments i think i took this wrong.. but WHY is my comment here 6 times? sorry carolan.. xo

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author avatar cnwriter
27th May 2012 (#)

not to worry love, take care and Godbless...

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author avatar Md Rezaul Karim
27th May 2012 (#)

Nicely shared poem and I found it different from other paintings too. Thank you cnwriter.

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author avatar Val Mills
27th May 2012 (#)

You are right, this is a controversial page, but good on you for expressing what is in your heart. I cringe whenever people criticise a writing site. My thoughts are, if you don't like it, leave. I may not be obvious on any of the sites I write for at the moment, but I'm still around.

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author avatar cnwriter
27th May 2012 (#)

I agree Val I write cause I love to write and I dont like people being so damn critiical...love you

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author avatar Buzz
27th May 2012 (#)

I don't think I'm the subject of this page. My point is clear. I criticize the site with the view to OTHERS outside wiki to disabuse their minds of prejudices and biases and that cannot happen if this Wiki site I truly love stays unperturbed despite "the arrows of misfortune hitting their mark, and I tell you they did. And yet, nothing was done to improve the shattered image. I just wish every one here should not have a very myopic view of my critique for my motive was for the good of every one concerned. At any rate, I'm not the subject of Carolan's article, Val, though I should be included, as Peter said, but only in a qualified sense since most of you disregarded my honest motive, which is for wiki to dispel its image of being an uncaring and insensitive site, not to mention a site where - as most everyone knows by now - doesn't pay its writers well enough to keep them for very long.

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author avatar Buzz
27th May 2012 (#)

The fact seems to be that Wiki is only for wealthy people who write for the sheer pleasure of it, and for poor people like most of us to criticize it for insensitivity and for bringing up the issue of fair compensation should leave as Val is suggesting, which is way off at a tangent. At the end of the day, will Wikinut change or not for the better? If not, I leave for good, even requesting the site to pleade with the admin to void my account and what little I have earned they can donate to charity!

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author avatar cnwriter
27th May 2012 (#)

oh Buzz what you write dont matter a whit to me...it was someone else that created me writing this page...so take care and lots of loving..

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author avatar Buzz
28th May 2012 (#)

I know, dear. Fair enough. Thank you.

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author avatar shallimarRose
27th May 2012 (#)

Buzz... I love writing here but like i said my first week here there are some flaws that could be easily fixed to make it run better and work better for all... I find myself wondering if there really is a chief nut at all...We seem to all bounce ideas and solutions off one-another but never hear from the only place that can do anything.... administation.... This site could be huge but sadly that will never happen if admin does not want to improve it..

xo Rose

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author avatar cnwriter
27th May 2012 (#)

whatever lets just write and enjoy the magic of words....

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author avatar Rajan Singh Jolly
29th May 2012 (#)

Wonderful write cn. I think its the feeling with which one writes that should count. If one can made the reader understand what he is trying to convey that's fine.
No one is perfect and to pint one finger at someone causes 3 fingers to point at you. One should remember this.
Some people just need to criticize so let them do their job while we do ours- that of writing.

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author avatar cnwriter
29th May 2012 (#)

I totally agree Rajan...a writer has a job to perform...to inform and that is what many of us (perhaps a few of us) here at wiki do....thank you for your wise comment..

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author avatar Ivyevelyn, R.S.A.
29th May 2012 (#)

I don't see all the negativity towards Wikinut. Once in a while I comment, such as, "if you don't like Wikinut, move on!" Maybe we have whittled down to a rather select group of writers. Some writers "fly by", peck at us, leave some droppings and fly off, some stay longer and swamp us with a deluge of pre-posted pages, and the remainder stay here, find true friends, respect the moderators and enjoy learning and writing. You do well, cnwriter, to take note of those who leave and then fire pot shots from under cover of another writing site. I am bemused by this but attach little importance to it. Buzz is Buzz. Buzz, doesn't comment on my pages now; I think he is "sitting on the fence". There is something about Buzz that I find inscrutable but he lovable anyway.
cnwriter: Stay with us. You are a true asset to this site.

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author avatar cnwriter
29th May 2012 (#)

I dont fire pot shots Ivy..I am just writing What Is..and if my words are what you call pot shots so be it... but thank you for commenting and yes I will keep on writing here..glad you too will...

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author avatar Christine Crowley
29th May 2012 (#)

You keep on writing, cnwriter. We appreciate all of your articles!

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author avatar cnwriter
29th May 2012 (#)

thanks so much Christine for your support...I so appreciate it as I do all my great friends here on wiki...blessings...

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author avatar Tranquilpen
31st May 2012 (#)

Love Ya Carolan!

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author avatar cnwriter
31st May 2012 (#)

love Ya back dear Andre...

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author avatar Ivyevelyn, R.S.A.
31st May 2012 (#)

cnwriter: I did not mean that you were firing "pot shots". The are fired, however, by some detractors, which is really what you are saying. I agree with you. An excellent page and well-deserved star.

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author avatar cnwriter
31st May 2012 (#)

thank you Ivy..I love your writing too...

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author avatar rama devi nina
20th Jun 2012 (#)

Very well outspoken, dear. I
ve missed the negative activity since I've been absent while traveling and have (thankfully) not been exposed to this. Love and light, rd

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author avatar cnwriter
24th Jun 2012 (#)

to you too Rama..much loving and light..

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author avatar Ramalingam
24th Jun 2012 (#)

I am new to the site but simply observing what is happening here.

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author avatar cnwriter
24th Jun 2012 (#)

just a needle in a haystack!!!! fun comes in all different shapes and sizes...thanks for commenting...

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